Why Every Anxious 20-Something Is Running a Marathon Right Now

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Lately, it seems like every 20-something is running a marathon. What was once a niche feat reserved for the elite and disciplined has now turned into an impulsive, oddly casual way for restless young adults to find structure and purpose in a decade that rarely offers any.

So, why a full marathon?

"A 5K isn't enough anymore," says Salina Grilli, LCSW, the founder of Manhattan Modern Psychotherapy, who has observed this new trend among many patients. "A lot of young people are going straight to the marathon, since it's a big, lofty goal. It's different. It's special," she tells us.

Of course, there are other respectable and (likely more achievable) races to consider — a 5K, a 10K, even a half marathon. But none of these, Grilli says, "have the uniqueness of saying you ran a full one." Perhaps that's the real draw for Gen Z.

Running a marathon is less about fitness and more about the optics of effort: the matching, $300 race-day set; the Strava screenshot uploaded with a humblebrag caption; the notes-app Instagram caption you've had mapped out in your head announcing that, yep, you're a marathon finisher. We're not just proving we can do hard things — we're making sure everyone knows we did.

The allure of bragging rights is hard to ignore or downplay — and 25-year-old Arianna Pollack, who lives in New York City, would be lying if she said it didn't play a role in why she signed up for her first-ever marathon this year. (Pollack ran the New York race last weekend.) Though she had dabbled in a variety of other athletic pursuits like yoga, soccer, and weightlifting as an adult, "running had been something I felt I wasn't 'good' at," Pollack tells us.

Taking on a challenge outside of her comfort zone offered a rare chance to build confidence and reclaim a sense of purpose during a turbulent stretch of life, which, for Pollack, included a recent breakup and burnout at her demanding job.

For others, training for a marathon is less about competition or proving themselves — instead, it's about finding connection during a post-college transition that can be surprisingly isolating.

As counterintuitive as it might sound, a marathon isn't really about medals or Strava kudos. Deep down, it's about tackling something undeniably challenging — a feat that requires lots of endurance, commitment, and patience — to reassure you that you're capable of incredible things when you're doubting yourself most.