Why Are Young Chinese So Into Finding 'Companions?'

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From latte art in coffee shops to paper-cutting in community classrooms, a new wave of activities combining skill-building with social interaction is quietly reshaping how young people in Huanggang, Central China's Hubei Province, connect with one another.

On the evening of March 23, a youth night school coffee workshop was under way, with nearly a dozen young adults learning the finer points of grinding, tamping, and creating latte art. Among them was Tang Bozhou, a 26-year-old who moved to Huangzhou after university. By the end of the session, Tang had gained more than a new skill; he had also made several new friends who shared his interests. Over a single cup, Tang found his "skill companion."

This kind of socially driven learning is gaining traction. Li Jiahao, a local official, said the organization designed the program to combine skill development with natural social interaction. "We want to help young people move from passive socializing to active engagement, opening up in a relaxed environment and connecting with like-minded peers," Li said. "This 'skill-building plus socializing' model helps them develop abilities while providing a comfortable space to interact."

For many, the benefits go beyond social connections. Some have used training in areas such as moxibustion, coffee-making and short-video operations to find flexible work locally. In Huangzhou, young people are discovering that "skill-based socializing" offers a way to grow and connect.

Meanwhile, in Dunhuang, Northwest China's Gansu Province, young travelers are discovering a new way to explore: finding a "companion."

Yang Meifang found unexpected value in the company of fellow travelers. Watching the sunset over Mingsha Mountain, tourists helped each other take photos, turning what could have been a solitary moment into a shared experience. "I love meeting different people on my journeys and hearing their stories," she said.

Of course, companions can also be found online. On social media platforms, many travelers post requests for "meal buddies," and the responses often lead to genuine connections. Yang Hao, a traveler from Southwest China's Chongqing Municipality, used this method to find a travel planner. They enjoyed their own space while benefiting from the safety of travelling together - planning routes and handling unexpected situations as a pair.

Xu Haiyan and Liu Hairong noted that travelling with a companion felt less complicated than travelling with close friends. "You can share your true thoughts along the way," they said. For many, this kind of social dynamic offers a sense of ease that feels hard to find elsewhere.

For some, a travel companion can even double the joy. Wang Yuting and Li Qian, who set off from their respective cities to meet in Dunhuang, said, "Finding someone who shares your taste in food is rare enough; having them with you makes it even more special. When you click with someone, the trip becomes so much more meaningful."

Along the way, those unexpected moments, combined with the companionship they found along the road, became treasured parts of their journey. For young people across China, finding a "companion" offers a way to navigate life and travel with a sense of shared purpose and connection.